The true secret of happiness lies in taking a genuine interest in all the daily details of lifeFund-raising has many engaging and inspiring sayings. Three that give insight into donor cultivation are:

At its heart, donor cultivation is about an organization's staff and leadership developing relationships with those capable of giving support and making them friends of the organization.

I define donor cultivation as an organization-wide strategy and process to learn more about each donor's interests, desired professional and social contacts, lifestyle, and philanthropic desires so that we can better initiate and respond to contact with a donor in order to develop a stronger relationship with that donor.

I can't stress enough how important this definition is - how important it is to the future of an organization's fund-raising efforts. Every successful fund-raising operation cultivates its donors - builds relationships with them. The most successful do it constantly and systematically.

Let's parse this 48-word statement and examine its key components. Again, the definition, this time with its key components in bold type:

Donor cultivation is an organization-wide strategy and process to learn more about each donor's interests, desired professional and social contacts, lifestyle, and philanthropic desires so that we can better initiate and respond to contact with a donor in order to develop a stronger relationship with that donor.

1.  Organization-Wide

To be successful, donor cultivation must be embraced by the entire organization. It is not just a tool to be used by the development department. In order for an organization to cultivate its donors successfully, and grow more and larger gifts, it must become donor centric. It takes the commitment and involvement of an entire organization to cultivate successfully donors.

2.  Donor Interests

The things people are interested in are important indicators of how and to what they will give.  How well do you know your larger donors? Do you know enough about each to conduct an engaging conversation about something other than your organization?  There are many bits and pieces of information you should be capturing about them:

These are just a few possibilities. But I guarantee if you had this information at your fingertips each time you spoke to or contacted a donor, your connection with that donor would be stronger, your relationship greater, and the amount that donor would give to your organization would be larger.

3.  Desired Professional and Social Contacts

Nearly everyone has professional and social pursuits they wish to further. When it comes to donors capable of making large gifts, do you know what business introductions they would like to have and whom they would like to meet socially?

4.  Lifestyle

How people live can tell you a great deal about how to approach them for gifts. What do you know about the lifestyle of each of your donors?  Does he or she:

Once again, these are only some of the data you may want to consider collecting about donors. But imagine what you could do if you had it at your fingertips.

5.  Philanthropic Desires

How about some donor knowledge that would seem obvious - their philanthropic involvement? Different people give to different organizations for different reasons. Keeping in mind the old 80/20 rule, that 80% of your money will come from 20% of your donors, do you have answers to each of the following for the top 20% of your donors?

6.  Initiate and Respond to Contact

Our sixth key component is initiating and responding to donor contact.  You need to have contact with donors at times other than during a campaign. Organizations that focus their donor contact on periods of donor solicitation are transaction oriented. They're like the son or daughter away at college who only calls home to ask for money. Donor dialog that begins and ends with a request for a gift is a guarantee of fewer and smaller gifts. Your organization must:

7.  Relationship

The last key component is relationship. Relationship is connection. We cultivate donors in order to strengthen the connection they have with our organization. The stronger that connection is, the deeper the relationship. The deeper the relationship a donor has with an organization, the more likely that donor is to make larger and more frequent gifts.

In a nutshell, Donor Cultivation is about everybody in an organization working to build the organization's relationship with each donor in the knowledge that a better relationship will result in more frequent and larger gifts.

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